Well i like to think that i explain everything that i said, but the links are there mostly to have a back up source, and to have something explained in a more detailed way that saves me time, it will cost time to the reader of course XD.
Indeed it is a world in which people have to try things first to know what they like. Yeah the modern parading of priorities (at least in the developed work) is to satiate a creative/intellectual/economic output and then having a family comes second even third, or just doesn't comes XD, but yeah these priorities change with time.
Oh but the power of the brain is quite limited, otherwise we wont have any need to train and practice mental task in order to remember or learn things, that's one example out of many, there's plenty of info on mental illusions and the limitations of the brain, however even with all that Sonja tells us that a mental disposition can overtake a genetic preposition, personally i like to believe on the validity of her study.
Talking about euphoria https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jz_VhUof5Js an euphoric life would be impossible because being alive also subjects us to sad times, however it can be argued that a life filled with various moments of euphoria is a life that is closer to "true" happiness (using the Plutchik-wheel as reference, the one about grades of feelings).
I see so you wont be in for the experience machine? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Experience_machine btw the machine could be programmed so in your simulation you would have to go through hardship in order to attain bliss.
Btw2 the experience machine/the matrix/brains in a vat, are all famous skepticism arguments, that in essence say that we have no means to know if the world we experience is a simulation.
And could this article change your views on transhumansim? http://kernelmag.dailydot.com/issue-titles/religion/11103/transhumanism-and-the-search-for-digital-immortality/?tw=kr personally i am all for it, talking with Dr S3C about the biological definition of life, and if viruses should count as alive or not, my position is that in which life as rare as it is, is not really all that specials and in a way a part of our "self" is already dying constantly so being digitized or mechanized wont prove a problem for me, the why to this would require another long message tho...
Yeah there's no way to know, you could search forever and there's no guarantee that what you find is true happiness, however if you don't search there's even less chances that you will find content, maybe what people should search for is satisfaction, to know that at least they tried and searched for it, and in the road they found some things, maybe is not true happiness but it is something, that correlates with Erickson's stages of psychosocial development http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erikson's_stages_of_psychosocial_development , since the last stage is reflection you can see if what you did with your life is fulfilling or not, but then again that depends of the person.
Yeah those are some sad examples, that can sadly be find in both history and our current times, like people that try to become superheroes then die of cancer, or parents using their kids to have a second go at life... but they are just a couple out of many cases, i never said that true happiness is impossible (it may or it may not be), i just said that attaining happiness is not something that is granted, or that it can be achieved using the same mediums and circumstances, after all for now if someone says that it is happy the only thing we can do is to believe them.
Yeah the fast move to prove a point is by arriving to the same conclusion by using the opposing premise, i don't really like it but it works XD.
It sounds ideal because just as you said, both the Fisherman and the tourist have the same ideas of what a happy life should look like.
Yeah " if you think you know what you want, you should give it a shot" that's pretty much it.
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On the unappealing side of the options, when you only have those kind of options at hand and nothing better, in those cases what occurs is more of a forced option towards the lesser of various evils, but being life weird as it is, it could be a possibility that one of those unappealing options ends offering happiness, as for that happiness being greater that the one offered by appealing options, that sounds unlikely, but who knows? maybe he joins the army, is brainwashed becomes a hardcore patriotic and each times he shoots someone in the name of the flag it experiences euphoria followed by ecstasy, even if it derives from the suffering of others, regardless of those others being good or bad, i guess that also count as happiness, in this case he would be a happy soldier that does a service to his country, if what his country (and the soldier) does is right and wrong that is another theme.
Doomroar
Ok now to the scenario #2
In this version we can measure happiness, and prescribe models of happiness to other people, this one is easy, since happiness is no longer an abstract thing, we can just tell someone how to carry with their life, then give them a scan of their brain in which we show them that they have attained true happiness, whatever that may be (because i will assume that such a system can guarantee a person's self-fulfillment http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-fulfillment i had an interesting conversation with Nietz about Self-actualization http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-actualization last year, and by that i mean 2013, and i believe we came to the conclusion that it is there were happiness resides, whether we were right or not remains to be proven), thus in this scenario there are solid ideas of what is true happiness and how it can be achieved, people then only need to do one things to be happy, and is to try to replicate the common preconception of what a happy life is, this scenario has a bonus however, and is that happiness not only is a solid objective concept, but it can also be measured and demonstrated.
All right lets go back to real people and the Fisherman, we live in a world that is a mixture of the 2 scenarios, people already have an idea of what a happy life is supposed to be, that idea is a cultural construct that is spread by tradition and it depends highly of ideological factors, that vary from social environment, to political ideals, to moral norms, religious beliefs, and personal taste as well as ambitions, in resume is a world filled with incompatibilities, practically anything goes because despite there being general ideals of what a happy life is, in the end it all bowls down to the person itself, in short you can't tell another person what will and what will not make them happy, or if money can buy them happiness or not, or if that happiness is real or not (you would be like the tourist that tries to tell the fisherman how to live his life, in essence you would be a fool).
This is a good point to write a TL:DR can money and the material world give people true happiness? yes, but that is not for everybody because true happiness will remain subjective unless the day arrives in which we can accurately measure and demonstrate what true happiness is like.
Ok so that's one part done.
Now, do i know what i want at this point in life? yes at this point in life, the question of "is that what you really want?" is something that a psychoanalyst should explore, for i don't know my uncconscious mind (which provides another problem and is that some psychologist argue that there is no unconscious mind as Freud would have think of it, but that will be for another time, you can read the article on wikipedia, the Controversy part http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unconscious_mind#Controversy and then there's Jung view on the unconscious, among other scholars, anyway), however i do (and this is a justified belief, see links on the previous comment) have a general idea of what i want, and even of the things that i want and can never be, but like i said before "trick is that what we want changes with time", so what i want now may not be what i want after, to explain why this, i would need another 4 comments in which i explain the myth of identity, all just to come to the obvious notion that people change overtime, anyway to save time i will use this method, lets assume that people never change, i guess shit would be completed more often XD, ok jokes aside lets assume that people never change and what happens is that they just don't know what they "truly" want, however that leaves us with what they don't want, so they can know what they want by discarding unappealing options, in my case i already know of plenty of things i don't want to spend my life doing/being, and these range from Civil engineer to fisherman, how do i know i don't want to be a fisherman? my granddad on my dad's side has a coastal farm on the northern parts of Choco (the peaceful side), and his life is practically a copy-paste version of The Fisherman Story, i have no doubt that he is happy with his life, but other than an occasional vacation (that comes as expensive mostly on transportation) i have no interest on experimenting his lifestyle. However i don't think that you need to experience something first hand in order to know that you don't want such a life.
I guess this covers pretty much the theme, yeah i do think that it could explore more indeed all the notions, but i do believe it manages to explain why a simple life wont satisfy everybody, however i do agree with the notion that most people do want to have a simple life but use the wrong means in order to achieve it, but not all people are most people.
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You're on a roll! Great wording on the part about incompatibilities. Yeah, to a certain extent people do change, I agree, no need for those four extra comments. :P lmao, that's what they'd call dirty work!
Ahh, you have deeper ties to that Fisherman tale than I expected! It's just one of those occupations that sound ideal, so in this particular story it feels like an ideal example, even if it does not apply to everyone.
Well, I partly agree, you should be able to know without experiencing something first hand, but as you say people do change, but, seeing as experiencing unappealing options first hand (especially without incentive - like you might have in unappealing tasks such as helping poor people or joining the army) is not something you'd want to spend your time on IF there are appealing options at hand, that doesn't matter: Conclusion: true happiness is subjective; if you think you know what you want, you should give it a shot? Long explanation for a simple answer, but I've been educated man. ;) (and I do agree btw)
That about sums it up!